Benefits Of The Babywise Schedule

By Imelda Reid


The first few weeks after the birth of a baby can be very stressful. Nothing can prepare new parents for the intensity of emotions that they will experience. In addition to overwhelming love and devotion they will also experience frustration and exhaustion. It is very important for them to understand that all this is perfectly normal and just about everyone goes through it.

Meeting the needs of everyone, including parents, siblings and the new infant takes some thought. Many parents feel that it should be a natural process that simply occurs on its own. Sadly this is rarely true and most people find that putting some thought and effort into the scheduling can really pay off. With this in mind the latest trend to hit the parenting world is Babywise schedule planning.

The On Becoming Babywise book is the latest phenomenon to hit the shelves. It takes a very practical approach to parenting and is not suitable for every family. The authors have done a nice job of combining their research and ideas into a very easy to read volume. Many parents say this is what they love about the plan. It is all set out for them and offers a wealth of advice and tips to try.

The intensity of parenting can be even worse if the infant has colic or a medical condition. Babies that cry for hours for no apparent reason are particularly frustrating for their parents. A high percentage of women also suffer from post natal depression. This devastating condition can strike anyone and is hormonally based. Its effects are particularly difficult for those with no one to turn to at their time of need.

Many people also find it quite helpful to go on line and read the comments left by other parents. It is wonderful to know that many other people struggle with sleep and feeding issues. Parents can log on and ask questions that relate to their own particular circumstances. They should be aware that not everyone will agree with the book and it is good to respect everyone's opinions.

Mothers who are going back to work often find the program very helpful. If they know that they have to be up and out of the house by a certain time it makes sense to plan a routine around that. This can really help to smooth the transition back to work. Yet they will also have to cope with the baby waking up early on weekends and plan that time to stick to the feeding and sleep routine.

No matter how much they read all parents should ultimately honor their own beliefs and philosophies. This can sometimes be very tough as they may face a lot of pressure from friends and family. Most of the advice is meant to help, but it can still be an issue for those who chose to do things their own way.

One key point to keep in mind is that there will always be setbacks. The babies first cold or other illness will often cause a disruption in the plan. Teething is also a time that can disturb even the most scheduled of infants. Allowing time to get back on track is very important and will keep every member of the family happy.




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