I look back with regret, feeling I have let many people down over the years due to my drinking. However, it is important to fully accept our mistakes and learn from them. In recovering I hear a lot about blame and justification. And how this was related to drinking. I was certainly one that could justify my drinking, all of us "problem drinkers" can. It was always someone else's or somebody else's fault. It was my job's fault, my family's fault, my health, my financial situation, and the list goes on. You name it, there was always an excuse to pour alcohol down my throat to oblivion.
First, if you think you have a problem with drinking likely you do. Think about it this way. People who don't have a problem with drinking don't ever question whether they have a problem. For example I have gambled a few times in my life. I do not think I have a problem with gambling. In fact I don't think about it; ever. I can take it or leave it. With alcohol this is not the case. I think about alcohol all the time. When I drink, I have a difficult time stopping. For many years, there's been a desire to control and quit drinking. Logically it would make sense to quit drinking. After all, almost all my misery is somehow related to alcohol. Perhaps your story is similar.
Every day, I spent time reflecting and writing. I read a lot about recovery and meet with many people struggling with alcoholism. The peace and contentment comes with the work so I encourage everyone to reach out, ask for help and start your amazing journey to freedom without alcohol. Listed below are two critical points we need to understand about alcoholism:
Alcoholics need to abolish the notion they can moderate, cut back, control, or take it easy when it comes to drinking alcohol. It simply doesn't work. It is a known fact that if we suffer from alcoholism, then abstinence is the only solution. We can't waste our time, money and life looking at another solution. Most active alcoholics are advancing toward impending death. If not a physical death through illness and accidents, then a death of the soul. Continuing on the alcohol abuse path is a sure way to a life full of misery. I know, because I was there.
2. Alcoholics have an abnormal desire to drink. A constant preoccupation is how I would best describe it. Alcohol is everywhere in an alcoholic's life. A constant awareness of it with everyday planned around alcohol. An alcoholic is usually thinking about it. For example; when will I drink next, how much I will drink, when I will buy it, how much I will buy. An alcoholic doesn't necessarily drink all the time; however the thought of it is not far from the mind. Normal drinkers don't do this.
2. Alcoholics have an abnormal desire to drink. A constant preoccupation is how I would best describe it. Alcohol is everywhere in an alcoholic's life. A constant awareness of it with everyday planned around alcohol. An alcoholic is usually thinking about it. For example; when will I drink next, how much I will drink, when I will buy it, how much I will buy. An alcoholic doesn't necessarily drink all the time; however the thought of it is not far from the mind. Normal drinkers don't do this.
For instance our need for acceptance and approval; our search for purpose and direction; and understand about feelings of insignificance and lack of security need our attention.
If you need assistance finding help, you can send me an email at sober.coach.one@gmail.com
First, if you think you have a problem with drinking likely you do. Think about it this way. People who don't have a problem with drinking don't ever question whether they have a problem. For example I have gambled a few times in my life. I do not think I have a problem with gambling. In fact I don't think about it; ever. I can take it or leave it. With alcohol this is not the case. I think about alcohol all the time. When I drink, I have a difficult time stopping. For many years, there's been a desire to control and quit drinking. Logically it would make sense to quit drinking. After all, almost all my misery is somehow related to alcohol. Perhaps your story is similar.
Every day, I spent time reflecting and writing. I read a lot about recovery and meet with many people struggling with alcoholism. The peace and contentment comes with the work so I encourage everyone to reach out, ask for help and start your amazing journey to freedom without alcohol. Listed below are two critical points we need to understand about alcoholism:
Alcoholics need to abolish the notion they can moderate, cut back, control, or take it easy when it comes to drinking alcohol. It simply doesn't work. It is a known fact that if we suffer from alcoholism, then abstinence is the only solution. We can't waste our time, money and life looking at another solution. Most active alcoholics are advancing toward impending death. If not a physical death through illness and accidents, then a death of the soul. Continuing on the alcohol abuse path is a sure way to a life full of misery. I know, because I was there.
2. Alcoholics have an abnormal desire to drink. A constant preoccupation is how I would best describe it. Alcohol is everywhere in an alcoholic's life. A constant awareness of it with everyday planned around alcohol. An alcoholic is usually thinking about it. For example; when will I drink next, how much I will drink, when I will buy it, how much I will buy. An alcoholic doesn't necessarily drink all the time; however the thought of it is not far from the mind. Normal drinkers don't do this.
2. Alcoholics have an abnormal desire to drink. A constant preoccupation is how I would best describe it. Alcohol is everywhere in an alcoholic's life. A constant awareness of it with everyday planned around alcohol. An alcoholic is usually thinking about it. For example; when will I drink next, how much I will drink, when I will buy it, how much I will buy. An alcoholic doesn't necessarily drink all the time; however the thought of it is not far from the mind. Normal drinkers don't do this.
For instance our need for acceptance and approval; our search for purpose and direction; and understand about feelings of insignificance and lack of security need our attention.
If you need assistance finding help, you can send me an email at sober.coach.one@gmail.com
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