Where does confidence come from? Is it something you are just born with or are we able to create confidence over time? Yes, a few individuals just seem to have it. But as someone that had it, lost it completely, and had to build it all back from nothing, I'm going to tell you you can do some pretty fascinating things with building some iron confidence in your life.
It might be that you have none in your life now, or maybe you just need some more because you know precisely how much it would aid you with making decisions. But actually, where does this sustainable confidence come from? There are these little things I really like to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of long lasting confidence comes from the act of sweating the details, the tiny stuff, the things that most people regularly overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the tiny details down, and really knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You begin to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these good habits into my life..what else am I really capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of magic. You see, when you take the time to really nail the little stuff, the bigger things get more attainable. It's when we try to go for the big goal without having the integrity of targeting the tiny things that really set us up for failure.
So sweat the tiny stuff. Really take the time to target the feasible measure of your life, and over longer bouts of time start going for larger goals. What if you fail? Take a step back down and refocus on what you can accomplish, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path towards success. In fact, the quantum leap is precisely what you should not be focusing on.
Lots of folks get discouraged when they try something large in life and fail. In reality the majority will try something 3 times and then give up completely. But if you build some serious momentum, you will have the confidence to try something over and over till you get it correct.
Isn't that a much better way to live life?
Build some significant momentum behind you and you are really capable of wonderful things.
But first, you must sweat the little stuff.
It might be that you have none in your life now, or maybe you just need some more because you know precisely how much it would aid you with making decisions. But actually, where does this sustainable confidence come from? There are these little things I really like to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of long lasting confidence comes from the act of sweating the details, the tiny stuff, the things that most people regularly overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the tiny details down, and really knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You begin to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these good habits into my life..what else am I really capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of magic. You see, when you take the time to really nail the little stuff, the bigger things get more attainable. It's when we try to go for the big goal without having the integrity of targeting the tiny things that really set us up for failure.
So sweat the tiny stuff. Really take the time to target the feasible measure of your life, and over longer bouts of time start going for larger goals. What if you fail? Take a step back down and refocus on what you can accomplish, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path towards success. In fact, the quantum leap is precisely what you should not be focusing on.
Lots of folks get discouraged when they try something large in life and fail. In reality the majority will try something 3 times and then give up completely. But if you build some serious momentum, you will have the confidence to try something over and over till you get it correct.
Isn't that a much better way to live life?
Build some significant momentum behind you and you are really capable of wonderful things.
But first, you must sweat the little stuff.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author and creator of The Words Of Encouragment, a website dedicated to encouraging others to achieve their dreams and live the best lives possible. So are you ready to start building some self confidence? If so, dive into these self confidence quotes.
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