If we actually believe in ourselves, who we are, what our purpose is in this world and what we are able to offer those around us, then there is hardly any quantity of negative feedback or praise that can knock us off our center.
It's just when a woman or man builds himself on the compliments or criticisms of others that their personality begins to take a dive.
To thrive in this world, you actually have to have thick skin. For no reason at all the wolves will come out after you and try and tear you and your reputation to shreds. Likewise, folks around you will compliment you with hollow praise and try to bring your ego up. If we fall into admitting both of these seemingly uncontrollable techniques of the world to outline us, we can quickly end up in an entire world of hurt.
The solution?
We have got to believe in ourselves. While this is proving to be one of the toughest things to develop it's also one of the most worthwhile lessons you can ever learn in life. No matter what, when the problems and praise comes, you continue to can maintain who you are. The grand temptations of life will attempt to make you change who you are into what the world wants you to be.
Avoid this at all costs. Don't change for those reasons. Instead, change for yourself and who you know you may be in the future. Keep growing and continue to improve your life day in and day out because that really is what feels right to you.
Then, when you reach the end of the line, you'll always be able to say that you stayed true to yourself regardless of anything that challenged you. To me, that sounds like a pretty happy life.
So start believing in yourself. You never know what you are capapble of until you really go for it.
It's just when a woman or man builds himself on the compliments or criticisms of others that their personality begins to take a dive.
To thrive in this world, you actually have to have thick skin. For no reason at all the wolves will come out after you and try and tear you and your reputation to shreds. Likewise, folks around you will compliment you with hollow praise and try to bring your ego up. If we fall into admitting both of these seemingly uncontrollable techniques of the world to outline us, we can quickly end up in an entire world of hurt.
The solution?
We have got to believe in ourselves. While this is proving to be one of the toughest things to develop it's also one of the most worthwhile lessons you can ever learn in life. No matter what, when the problems and praise comes, you continue to can maintain who you are. The grand temptations of life will attempt to make you change who you are into what the world wants you to be.
Avoid this at all costs. Don't change for those reasons. Instead, change for yourself and who you know you may be in the future. Keep growing and continue to improve your life day in and day out because that really is what feels right to you.
Then, when you reach the end of the line, you'll always be able to say that you stayed true to yourself regardless of anything that challenged you. To me, that sounds like a pretty happy life.
So start believing in yourself. You never know what you are capapble of until you really go for it.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Feeling a bit worn down and tired from failed journeys of the past? Dig into these tired quotes and then explore around the site for some more inspiration. You have what it takes to do something great.
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